I was out of the country when the Schiavo story broke, so I’ve been trying to catch up with the arguments. Since I’ve been back, I haven’t read much about the possible motives for Michael Schiavo’s desire to end his wife’s life, so it was edifying to have the always clear- thinking Charles Krauthammer raise the issue:
In this case, the loved ones disagree. The husband wants Terri to die; the parents do not. The Florida court gave the surrogacy to her husband, under the generally useful rule that your spouse is the most reliable diviner of your wishes: You pick your spouse and not your parents, and you have spent most of your recent years with your spouse and not your parents.
The problem is that although your spouse probably knows you best, there is no guarantee that he will not confuse his wishes with yours. Terri’s spouse presents complications. He has a girlfriend, and has two kids with her. He clearly wants to marry again. And a living Terri stands in the way.
If there’s a tendency that defines our era, it’s the tendency to confuse one’s own interests with the interests of another or the interests of a greater good. Is it possible that many of those who want Mrs. Schiavo to die do so because they would want to be rid of a burdensome relative if they were in Mr. Schiavo’s shoes? Is it possible that those who support abortion “rights” do so because they wouldn’t want a sick child limiting their personal freedom?
The other day, NPR’s ever-smug Terry Gross interviewed some author who has written a book about how having kids keeps women from achieving self-actualization. The author lived in France for a while and praised the French for subsidizing lavish child care programs that free women from having to participate much in the raising of their children. The author implied the lack of equally lavish state subsidies in the U.S. is driven by a desire to deny women their freedom.
One thing you can’t say about Terri Schiavo’s parents is that they are unwilling to sacrifice their own lives for their daughter. That ought to count for a lot, but apparently it doesn’t.
Dan Henninger identifies the common sense, as opposed to the legal, approach in today’s Wall Street Journal:
If we lived amid the wisdom of Solomon, Terri Schiavo would be turned over to her loving parents and family. If it is their wish to live out their lives attending the constant needs of their damaged child, so be it. However, we live in an age bereft of the wisdom of Solomon, and so Terri Schiavo is likely to die. That the American legal system is incapable of common sense is very upsetting, but I don’t see why it should be found surprising or shocking.